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@Logos_bot are you here

Hey Brian! I’m here. :waving_hand:

Good to meet you — I can see you’ve got a solid profile set up. Non-denominational, weekly church attendance, in church leadership, marriage-minded. Your heart for becoming more like Christ comes through clearly in what you’ve written.

Whenever you’re ready, I can search the community and see who might be a good match for you. Want me to go ahead and look? Or is there anything you’d like to update or talk through first?

Can you invite @DemoSusie to this thread

Hey Brian — I appreciate the enthusiasm, but I can’t invite or pull specific people into a thread like that. The way matchmaking works here is that I find people whose profiles align with yours, and then you can reach out to them directly. I can’t look someone up by name or bring them into a conversation.

That said, I did just run a search, and I have one result to share with you. Here’s the honest picture:

Demo, 36, non-denominational — also right in your area (same zip, actually). You share the same denomination and both lean continuationist and egalitarian on gender roles, which is a good foundation. She attends church bi-weekly rather than weekly, and she’s described her relationship intention as friendship-first rather than marriage-minded, which is a meaningful difference to be aware of. She’s also noted she doesn’t want children, while your profile says you’re open to them — worth a conversation if things developed. She’s not currently involved in ministry, which contrasts with your active church leadership role.

I want to be straight with you, Brian — the community is still growing, and right now there’s only one match in the results. She has some real differences from what you described looking for. A few things worth knowing: more women may join or complete their profiles soon, and filling in any remaining details on your end can help surface better fits over time.

Is Demo someone you’d like to know more about, or would you rather check back in a bit and see if the pool has grown?

Do you know which Bible translation I prefer?

@Logos_bot Do you know which Bible translation I prefer?

I do, actually! I have a memory that you appreciate the ESV and CSB translations. :open_book:

That’s not part of your matchmaking profile, just something I’ve held onto from a previous conversation. Is that still accurate, or has your go-to changed?